Human Design chart lets you know what kind of little monster you’ve given birth to!

Everyone has a picture, and so does your child. Knowing the shape of your child is very helpful because you will know how to make him/her grow up. At the same time, you will no longer have to discipline them in the traditional Chinese way because you now know that everyone is different and everyone has their own shape. The worst thing a parent can do is to help the social machine to assimilate their children into the molded gears. This is the worst thing a parent can do for their child.

Understand your child’s design, understand its beginnings, fantasize about what that design will look like when it matures, and allow that growth to happen naturally, don’t stand in the way, just set up a space where your child can survive and learn on their own, and let them follow their own blueprints and grow. But for all of this, you need to know what your child needs, what they are, and what their most powerful energy is. 

And, like a partnership, when you know your child’s personality, when your child wants to criticize you, to be the boss, to provoke you, to be individualistic, to challenge your authority, you will understand that this is all by design, and you won’t be able to bring Chinese discipline back into the family. You will realize that your child is a human being, and you will treat your child as an adult. Because you know that we are all just jigsaw puzzles, and jigsaw puzzles don’t get more weight because of the age difference. When you see it that way, you will respect the choices, behaviors and decisions your child makes.

You have to realize that your child just doesn’t have what it takes to survive. They are better than you at everything else, especially “being themselves regardless of what others think. Learning from each other and giving them the space to survive and grow freely by their own design is the only thing you need to do as a parent. Yikes, at most, at most, you can follow his/her natural design and guide some people, things, interests, experiences and learning that may be suitable for them, similar to their design theme, and put them in front of them to see if they will accept it. That’s about as far as I think parents should go.